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I personally, would laugh at him, and say:-


" You know you can't live without me, you will one day"... amd smile...

Because reality is, if you two are in love and can't live without each other, one day, it will happen....

CW

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MandyBee23

Lol I like that! I'll say that next time. Thanks.

Ed69

I don't know what Florida law is.but in Oregon after 12 months living in the same residence you have a common law marriage.Sooo.......

WildChild

Usually, at least in the common law state I live in. you have to present yourselves as married. In other words people around you whom you do business with and neighbors and such would have to have reason to believe you are married. The colleges make it very clear that if you apply for and live in married student housing for 3 months, you will have a legal common law marriage. Here it takes only 3 months. If you say you are married, if people address you as married and you don't correct that - then you are. Sometimes proving that can be difficult legally.

MandyBee23

I honestly don't know what Florida law is either, I'll have to look it up.

So he started the "oh I can't do it" again the other night when we where watching the move "He's just not that into you" we were cuddling so I grabbed his hand and said "It's okay, I know you can't live with out me" and he just said awe and smiled

WildChild

Florida is not a common law state.

Ed69

So move him to Oregon for 12 months and you have him!LOL Sorry but I had to say it,I'm a sick pupp I guess!LOL

caterpillar79

With your other posts on him being shady, you are better off not being married to him yet. Honestly, just being concerned about you as a woman, too, he seems not being ready for that kind of commitment yet.

If your concern is having kids without being married, then don't get pregnant. Practice safe sex as much as you can. You have to leave something for yourself, don't give it all to him.

I could tell that you are going into a co-dependent relationship, whereas you are the giver. Don't allow this to happen. If you hear him say it again, assert yourself and tell him that it upsets you. If he doesn't like it, fine! But at least you've aired your feelings. Don't bow down to him too much, he's not your god. He needs you tough love.
(Sorry for my harshness, just showing you the other side of the spectrum). I care.

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