Uneeklyme

For a long time I asked my partner to take me to a strip club. He said he would feel funny taking me but eventually we wound up going. It actually had nothing to do with my sexuality, I was just curious. I loved it. It was entertaining. Most clubs are just bars with the stripper as a side show. Like a sports bar with big screen tvs. Actually, there were quite a few women in the clubs we went to. It's cool to sit and watch the girls but all in all it was nice to just get out with my partner and do something different with him.

caterpillar79

Hey, Pix! We went last night, much to his surprise when I dared him. He said he couldn't believe I was asking him about it. I told him I was seriously curious. So we ended up going. It was a different form of entertainment, which could be "interactive" if you want it to. There was a woman who tipped the dancers and they did various sexy things, it was fascinating. The place that we went to is not really nice, so he said he'd bring me to a better place next time. I'll keep you posted.

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yellowpiXi3

that's awesome! it sounds like you had a good time!... how many of those girls did you feel you can take on a fight IF they ended up working up on your man? LOL jk.

my bf and i still haven't gone yet. he's pretty busy with work and side projects. but he said we'll go.... a lady was telling the girls to do sexy stuff? really? that's interesting. did you get a lap dance?

caterpillar79

no, i didn't. but i will if bf insists next time...just out of curiosity. LMAO!

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lovemyself1

yea....dont go to a strip club cuz ur bi-curious. those girls are not the best quality ones out there. i'd say try to meet someone another way to do the bi thing. as for just lookin...go for it. but i think those girls are dirty...and not in a good way.

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caterpillar79

Actually, not all the girls that do it are dirty. My opinion.

Last night BF and I together with his co-worker went to the same club, it was better that night. We talked to some of them, and BF's co-worker related his conversation with one, too and he told us that the girl has a BS degree in Biochem. I don't really buy her reason, but she claimed that she earns more there, and just needs to work 3 nights to get by - she has 2 daughters. I don't like her reason, but that doesn't mean I am against her - that's her decision, you know. But she's not dirty, too. It's all in the way you look at it.

Hey, Pix! I had 2 lap dances. It was outrageous! I am still sexier than them. LMAO! Nothing, no one beats my exotic charms. LOL! (BF agrees).

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Hopeless Dork

Her reason is a valid one. Girls do make a lot of money in that industry, regardless of looks or charm but the more the better obviously. I don't believe she has that sort of education... working on it perhaps but having the degree already, nah probably not.

A girl with no skills, education or drive can pull more money in a week at a good club that doctors and lawyers make. Minimum wage at wafflehouse? Or Tax free (for the most of them working shadily under the table and not declaring those mega tips) thousand dollars a day? Strip club sounds pretty lucrative by comparison , yes?

It takes it toll on mind and body though. Girls have to pretty much shut down part of themselves to be able to dry hump strangers (some that are quite repulsive) for hours in a day. To have show their most personal bits to anyone with a handful of dollars. They lose respect for themselves and others and write off their emotions with the luxery items they can now aqquire.

Girls develop vericose veins (even in their 20's), spinal and toe issues from sporting 7 1/2 inch heels several hours a week. Its not all easy money, they do work hard for it. Coming home at the end of the day not knowing if that stain on the gstring in your gym bag is lotion or spooge and if so.. who's? Its a dirty job, but someone has to do it.

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yellowpiXi3

that's good that you're seeing that experience in a positive way for yourself. and WOW two lap dances...must have been very interesting..


although her reasoning being stripper was to get money...if she had a biochem degree..WHY is she a stripper. idk..that's just the nerd in me i guess...and the modesty talking. but i'm glad you had some what of an enjoyment out of that.

imabobcat

I think it's ok...but the thing is..my bf said, "Eeeewww!" hahaha--I think we will never go into one.