is he strange??

hilal · 06-16-2009, 09:36 AM

I dont really think that i have a typical boy friend.he is 17 and he doesnt like talking about sex.I dont really think that he masturbates.Is it weird??????When i tried to talk and wanted to know what he thinks about that. he seemed so uncomfortable to me and he said he doesnt like talking about these things.All boys i have talked to like talking about sex and they like sex and girls.but he is not even interested in.when i said ''ok .u dont like that.i wont talk about it again''.He just said ''ok''.

And he thinks that girls dont know about sex.And when i talked to him about sex for the first time.He said ''you are interested in sex so much''.And it really hurt me.i thought i was a or a porn star.But i hadnt even said anything so strange.Just something everybody(girls and boys) knows.And all i wanted to try was making him relax about everything when he is with me.Cos i dont want him to get nervous and afraid of making mistakes when he is with me.I really dont know what to do.I wanna talk to him but i dont know what to talk about.I have never seen a boy like him.He doesnt talk and smile much.He is a frozen face.
And by the way he is so kind and i love him.the most importent thing as my taught is i am his first girlfriend.He thinks he is ugly and cold and no girls likes him.He doesnt know how to treat to a girl.And i like when he treats strange and gets shy after making a mistake.But i never get angry with him and that makes me laugh actually....

And sorry for my bad english.English is not my native language.^.^Thanks.

**Hopeless Dork** · 06-16-2009, 09:58 AM

Hilal it sounds like you found a special guy. No I don't think he is strange, I think he is shy when it comes to talking about sex and sounds like he respects you and women in general and theres nothing wrong with that. My boyfriend is is much older than yours and still blushes talking about sex even though he is better at it than than I've ever experienced in my life.

Some guys talk to the talk and some guys walk the walk. You are right, many teenage boys do like to talk about sex, so consider yourself lucky that you found one that doesn't only think with his penis!

I am sure he masturbates, and that he just is embarrased. Give him some time to be more comfortable with those matters and enjoy all the things about him that make you happy.

hilal · 06-16-2009, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Hilal it sounds like you found a special guy. No I don't think he is strange, I think he is shy when it comes to talking about sex and sounds like he respects you and women in general and theres nothing wrong with that. My boyfriend is is much older than yours and still blushes talking about sex even though he is better at it than than I've ever experienced in my life.

Some guys talk to the talk and some guys walk the walk. You are right, many teenage boys do like to talk about sex, so consider yourself lucky that you found one that doesn't only think with his penis!

I am sure he masturbates, and that he just is embarrased. Give him some time to be more comfortable with those matters and enjoy all the things about him that make you happy.

Thank you so much for your mail.I think you're right.He is really a special guy.

**ren_07** · 06-17-2009, 04:16 PM

He certainly does seem like a special guy. The only issue I could see becoming of this scenario would be that he never truly opens up. This could leave you unsatisfied sexually and in conversation. All relationships need chemistry, and it's even more magical when it's a matching chemistry. Are you guys being sexual physically with each other, or is he too embarrassed in that regard as well?

hilal · 06-27-2009, 08:03 AM

yeah we are i think .. and he has never told me that he will never have sex or he is afraid of sex...he is just too shy i think ..and its cos of im his first girlfriend. im not uncomfortable about that ..it just seemed strange to me and i think its not so strange like that..just a different guy for me =)

06-16-2009, 09:36 AM	#1
hilal Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12	is he strange?? I dont really think that i have a typical boy friend.he is 17 and he doesnt like talking about sex.I dont really think that he masturbates.Is it weird??????When i tried to talk and wanted to know what he thinks about that. he seemed so uncomfortable to me and he said he doesnt like talking about these things.All boys i have talked to like talking about sex and they like sex and girls.but he is not even interested in.when i said ''ok .u dont like that.i wont talk about it again''.He just said ''ok''. And he thinks that girls dont know about sex.And when i talked to him about sex for the first time.He said ''you are interested in sex so much''.And it really hurt me.i thought i was a or a porn star.But i hadnt even said anything so strange.Just something everybody(girls and boys) knows.And all i wanted to try was making him relax about everything when he is with me.Cos i dont want him to get nervous and afraid of making mistakes when he is with me.I really dont know what to do.I wanna talk to him but i dont know what to talk about.I have never seen a boy like him.He doesnt talk and smile much.He is a frozen face. And by the way he is so kind and i love him.the most importent thing as my taught is i am his first girlfriend.He thinks he is ugly and cold and no girls likes him.He doesnt know how to treat to a girl.And i like when he treats strange and gets shy after making a mistake.But i never get angry with him and that makes me laugh actually.... And sorry for my bad english.English is not my native language.^.^Thanks.

06-16-2009, 09:58 AM	#2
Hopeless Dork Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United States Posts: 1,173	Hilal it sounds like you found a special guy. No I don't think he is strange, I think he is shy when it comes to talking about sex and sounds like he respects you and women in general and theres nothing wrong with that. My boyfriend is is much older than yours and still blushes talking about sex even though he is better at it than than I've ever experienced in my life. Some guys talk to the talk and some guys walk the walk. You are right, many teenage boys do like to talk about sex, so consider yourself lucky that you found one that doesn't only think with his penis! I am sure he masturbates, and that he just is embarrased. Give him some time to be more comfortable with those matters and enjoy all the things about him that make you happy. __________________ ------------- My Lovely Whats...That's What.

06-17-2009, 04:16 PM	#4
ren_07 VIP Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 37	He certainly does seem like a special guy. The only issue I could see becoming of this scenario would be that he never truly opens up. This could leave you unsatisfied sexually and in conversation. All relationships need chemistry, and it's even more magical when it's a matching chemistry. Are you guys being sexual physically with each other, or is he too embarrassed in that regard as well? __________________ In the end, the king and the pawn both go into the same box.

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06-27-2009, 08:03 AM	#5
hilal Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12	yeah we are i think .. and he has never told me that he will never have sex or he is afraid of sex...he is just too shy i think ..and its cos of im his first girlfriend. im not uncomfortable about that ..it just seemed strange to me and i think its not so strange like that..just a different guy for me =)