Grimlin

Yes. Just being around him makes me feel good. He said he's become dependant on me to just be around. I don't currently have a job, so it's not a financial dependance.

He said he'll try to work out and eat healthier with me, but then chugs soda and eats things that aren't exactly healthy right in front of me.

CHANDLERS WISH

Well, he needs to be serious when he says he will do something and not say something and not do it.

Your body is yours, a man has to love you no matter what, if you put weight on, lose weight, love is love.

Tell him on the weight side of it, "your serious", do not eat rubbish in front of me.

On the same accord, you need to get to the stage where what ever anyone else is eating is not a concern for you, as you don't want to... Again, you can't make someone eat less with you, or better foods because that's what you want.

I am suggesting that you ask him to hold about for a couple months so you can get yourself used to eating healthier and for him to support that with you and not eat or drink pops in front of you for that period of time, to help you...

Money may be an issue. He might not be able to afford two tickets all the time.

And, also, if your not working then your always available, there, so he may need a break as well, i expect you are suggesting you live together?

You need to decide what it is you want in life, what you want to do for a living, what type of job you may have to take in the meantime, how much weight you want to lose, what types of food you want to eat to get there, how many friends you have and who you can get together with and when, you need to have your own independance as well.

Seems he has gained some or retaining some and you may be bored with life at present and therefore, he is your all.

CW

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There's no "try" in that endeavor...its either you do or you don't.

I know from experience. Either you make a lifestyle change, or you will make no progress.

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