lovemyself1

so i'm now dating this great guy and he is beyond sweet. he is attractive, but he has some tooth decay. it doesnt bother me personally, but i'm afraid that other people might think less of him if they notice. so what is the best sensative way to go about asking him if he would get them fixed? he has metioned to me that he does want to fix em but i want it done before he meets may family. i just want him to be judged on the wonderful person he is and not that one flaw.

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Tina Lee

Go about it gently & lovingly.

If he's already mentioned that he would like to get them fixed himself, then chances are he's already come across some not very nice people who've already judged him because of it. He's probably feeling low about himself.

Is he easy to talk to? If you think he would be receptive, I would definately grab his hand, and ease into it. Or if he mentions his teeth sometimes, then wait until the next time he brings it up, & then tell him.

I think it's wonderful that you look past the outer shell of someone. He is lucky to have you. As you've already said, that not everybody is as deep as they should be.

caterpillar79

If he does have that initiative to have it fixed (as he stated), then maybe the problem is insurance/finanaces. How will you help him?

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