MrDarcy

Hi guys!

Need a girls opinion here. I've found finally found the woman of my dreams (after looking for many years) and I want to make sure I don't lose her.

I met this girl on a dating website and after a few e-mail exchanges we agreed to meet up. We ended up going for coffee and spent the best part of three hours chatting away and talking about all things in general.

On the surface she seemed really into the conversation and comfortable in my presence. There was no doubt she was a little nervous, as was I, but the conversation seemed to flow naturally and it looked like she was having a good time.

We finished off coffee and I offered to walk her to her car. We then hit that 'awkward' point where neither of us knew how to say goodbye properly. I really wanted to kiss her but it did'nt seem like the right moment so I gave her a hug and peck on the cheek and we parted our separate ways.

Anyway, I asked her if she wanted to meet up later that night and she said she couldn't because she was meeting up with friends. Initially I thought this was a genuine excuse but now I'm thinking it could have been a way to politely decline seeing me further.

I gave her a call a few days later and we ended chatting for 30 mins talking about all sorts of things which I thought was pretty cool. I had to end the conversation because I was about to start gym class but I promised her I'd call again in the next few days to arrange another date.

My question is...how would I be able to tell if she's genuinely interested in seeing me again? What do you think will be the signs?

From a guys perspective it's REALLY HARD to tell how she feels about the situation.

Thanks in advance,

Mr Darcy.

Chantalemma

I would invite her for another date. If she says yes! Then go for it! If she says no. Then take it as she is not interested in you. Sto calling her as much let her call you too. If she doesn't then you might want to take it as a sign too. I am happy that you found this person if she makes you happy just be carefull.

GlitterAndStuds

Those first meetings are always tricky and fun at the same time.

I would say the same thing, just ask her on another date and see what she says. If she says yes, then she must at least have a slight interest in you, otherwise she would find an out. If she doesn't, without a good reason, then you have your answer. It does sound like you guys had a great time. Anyone that I meet and can hold a 3 hour conversation with must be pretty awesome.

Try not to come on too strong and it sounds like you'll be okay. There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there and seeing what happens. Ask her on a date and take it from there. If she says no, then I would leave it alone and take it as she's not feeling it. And if she gives an excuse for not being able to, let her be the one to call you later. Good Luck!

WildChild

Why not start with something non-threatening? A visit to a museum or exhibit where you can actually have a conversation and get a feel for each other's tastes? A picnic in an area park and a walk? Don't do movies or concerts yet, there is no opportunity to actually talk.

gina13

definitley ask her to go sumplace with you again, dont say a specific date,, let her say a date, if she wasnt interested in you then she will just say no or say sumthing like im very busy,, and such,, over the internet is tricky,, lol i would definitley know,, but how long have you known this girl? and yes the kiss thing is an awkward moment,, but if she didnt like ur personality,, then she wouldnt have agreed to meet you in the first place,, and ok so you met for the first time you gave her a small kiss on the cheek thats good too,, but if she says yes to meet you for a second date,, and things go good then i would say its ok,, to give her a reg light kiss on the mouth lol,, and you know let things go from there,