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    Oh yeah....and I caught him two different times staring at my behind when I was walking away...and then he just outright told me he was "checking out the goods" the third time. He didn't mean it in a degrading way, we were jokin around.

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    He suggested joining a women's support group....because he knows I'm the kind of person that wants a relationship with a man to be meaningful, but isn't convinced that that can be fully achieved without me dealing with what happened. He said he believes this is all part of the process of being able to "fill my own glass" before I can help fill someone else's. He then went on to say that he's trying to make sure his "glass is overflowing" before he can be with someone properly, as he is still dealing with a lot of his family issues and work stresses. So
    Yes, he knows what he wants, where he is going.


    He is supporting you as a friend.

    He has had baggage in his life and wants a woman whom has none.

    He cares about you but you need to let go of the past if you want him in your future and show that to him.

    He's a cool guy in my opinion one who doesn't use, one who understands but one whom knows what he wants and where he is going.. He will and cannot help someone whom has a past, rather a woman whom knows where she is going and the past is exactly there.

    Change you way of thinking, over a short period (3 months of time) and show him that you have grown and you could win this man.

    When we talk about emotions? past? if they have dealt with it, they don't want to deal with it again, yet he's interested but does not and will not take a women with past, rather confidence.

    You have some ground work to do but you can do it... to win this man, if you really want, because you like him.

    Your choice.

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    just from what you said, it sounds like he wants you. but wants to take it slow. i hope things work out for you two.

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    CW, I have been thinking about this since I got home, but I have no idea what to do to show him that I have "grown". I am reading this book called A New Earth, it's about how you think and perceive things, so I guess that might help. Other than that, I'm not sure where to start....

    I kinda got the impression that he's diggin me to and we can go as slow as necessary....hopefully its the right vibe..I'm very excited. He is a sweetheart!

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    I think that the fact that he asked you questions, after talking about dating sites etc, didn't let you go rather offered you to stay, he does like you... But I reckon there's a tad of concern there on his behalf.

    So, bring the book up in conversation lol... Let him see your growing.. and go slow ..

    No one talks unless they are lonely... two nights in a row is not bad inings.

    I am wishing you luck on this one, white witch luck.. lol..

    CW
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    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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