Thread: Confident jerk - Now what

I agree, give it a shot! Sure, wait a couple of days maybe, you never know if he's going to contact you. But if the business part won't be an issue, go for it. The worst thing he can say is no, in which case he's an idiot anyway

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Now over these two weeks, we've only texted about the house, once he replied with "haha, I know you want a sale", to which I replied " It may suprise you but I also want to make sure that you want this home", to which he stated " appreciated"... One or two calls - all business .......

Anyways, 1) I couldn't believe that I said what I did and 2) this is what followed.

I couldn't get into the friggen Unit, the tenants had locked it from the inside, so I tried the front door.

He at this point, was still giving "buying signs", asking what something was in the courtyard area etc.

I laughed, (what could I do?) and said, well you can still see the kitchen through the window... He didn't look, just smiled.

Im sure the "buying signs" was not because of the house rather your deliciousness

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

So, anyways I then proceeded to tell him I had another interested buyer from Queensland ( different State) at $5k more, as it was I was going to have to cut my commission $3k for him to purchase it.. He said "sure", so I said, "oi, do you think I'm lying? I'm not" to which he smiled and said, well go chace that one.

This guys fresh, Watch out he may be a pick up artist.... Lmao

j/k but I like him :}

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Anyways, I know this is long ....

Then get to the point!

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

His mobile phone rang and so I stood in the driveway, he took out reading glasses, (trendy ones) put them on and proceeded to tell the person on the phone to hold whilst he tried to retreive a number, I laughed.. I thought it was amusing ( whilst admiring him) that, he was trying to locate this number whilst still talking..

Looks like your attraction for him is growing, from his status symbols to his much simpler idiosyncrasies...

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

To which, he turned, looked at me and said " shut up you" and smiled...

This is like little children on the playground when the boy pushes the girl away and just causes her to like him more. THE GAME NEVER CHANGES!

Ok believe it or not, he is trying to keep your attention and focus on you while he is on the phone, (sign of interest)

He is also teasing which is clearly pointed out by the smile (His smile is a way for him to soften the "shut up" a subconcious gesture of being playful)

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

I'm like WT? Took me back a bit at the same time, made me think - was that a flirt?

It was meant to take up back, what it communicates is that he is not intimidated by you which is attractive. Also It was a flirt your lady intuition was right.

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

So, when he got off the phone he proceeded to state that he said that because I was laughing at him putting on glasses ( self-concious?) to which I said, no it just seemed funny how you went about doing that.

It wuld have been better if he didn't explain it but hey its good enough for me to give him a

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

So, I said, "so why am I here then if you weren't going to go to what we dicussed?

He said " haha because you wanted to see me again".

Again, that threw me.

Off course, I said "lets start walking back towards the cars", and I stated " no, because obviously you wanted to see me again". He laughed and said nothing.

He actually did this to guage your interest level. Which you passed nicely when you tested him and repeated it...

His silence was actually a confirmation of "She likes me"

Which is why he smiled!

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Further small talk then regarding this other person that was interested, how he intends as an "Investor" to sit back and get a bargain, how I am smart and will just tell the Vendor he was a jerk and work it out with this other person...

So now we are at the driveway, he laughs and tells me "your double parked" , I can't recall what I answered with, a few nerves were happening... lol... and then I made one of those double meanings and said, "well sleep on it"...

Awe someone has the butterflies... haha

Btw. This was more of that playground behavior... Its flirting.

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Now, I suspect he was serious as to why he turned up, to see me, and no no text messages last night.

Thing is, I want to be balsy and text and say, "right, Ms Qld is coming down to look, but I think you owe me dinner, for putting me out"...

And, do this tomorrow.

What's your thoughts ... lol.

CW

Ok the attraction on both of you have been clearly demonstrated!

You to him
Him to you

What you have to do is move the conversation from buisness/work to casual... You have to do it soon while the buying temperture is still hot

Dont wait 3 days or so...

Your text is fine, while I would suggest "a cup of something wonderful " instead of dinner...

Hope this helps

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