If he says he doesn't want a commitment, but you do, then it sounds like you are wasting your time with him. He calls you insecure, and maybe that's a little bit true since you let him take advantage of you, letting him decide how he wants things to be with you just going along with it, even if it's not what you want. If you really want a mature, committed relationship, then maybe you should stop fawning over this guy who seems like he just wants a bachelor's life. You sound like a very amazing, caring woman, and you shouldn't have to twist anyone's arm for a committed relationship. I think it is sketchy that he won't approve your friendship on facebook and that he is always ready to comfort an ex in crisis. More time spent with this guy might make you miss meeting a man who will take care of you the way you deserve.
It doesn't sound like he's that into you. He should at least add you on facebook if he's got all his exes on there. It shouldn't be a big deal to him.
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