confusedbyhim

For some reason this guy has all of his exes on facebook even one's that he only dated for a couple of weeks. I am not on his facebook. He never goes on facebook though. Well I guess he goes on but very little...He never had pics and now he has added a few. All these women live in the Dominican republic and he lives in Miami. He is 41 yrs old. What does this mean? I am not on his faceboko and he has never requested me. We spend a lot of time together though. He keeps telling his mom that I am insecure and that is why that bothers me.....I know I am but why would he have all these exes on there...not pics of him and them but just as friends. Am I overreacting?

OhThereYouAre

Sounds like he doesn't get on Facebook a lot. It probably hasn't crossed his mind to add you. Does he know you have a Facebook profile?

Also, if he tells his mother that you are insecure, he probably is dreading you over reacting over what you see should you become a friend. You already are kind over analyzing things now....

Don't worry about it. It's not a big deal.

In the meantime...if his actions are worthy of it, try and work on trusting him.

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confusedbyhim

I requested him as a friend and he just ignored it. I gave up on adding him. Yes he knows I have a profile. He never had pics but as of last night he does.At the time it made no sense to me but I guess what you are saying is true. I placed another post the other day under dating....and it is called what do I do? can you give me your opinion on that?

Kallygirlie

so who is this guy? You have never dated him right? Just hung out? How close of a friend are you? have you requested him? you cant expect him to request you, prob doesn't think about it. I never request people on face book but if they request me, i'll approve it. Further more, you are already getting worked up over what he has on his page. you aren't together so how can you be jealous of what he has there. I know personally, on my myspace page at one point I had almost all of my ex's on there. I just stayed friends with them after. Not everyone breaks up and hates each other

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confusedbyhim

hey kalligirl I am the same one that posted the what do I do? post. I have been with him for 3 yrs. I requested him at one point and he just disregarded it.

x.st.angel.x

i reckon you might be a bit insecure...sounds like you check his profile as much as you can. maybe he doesnt want you 'spying' on him as such. I dont think you should worry too much, just go with the flow and see where the wave takes you. Good luck

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Kallygirlie

now if you have been with him for 3 yrs then somethings not right. Have you talked to him about this? Insecure or not, denying your girlfriend from any page is just rude to me. It makes me wonder what he's hiding. I'm gonna read your other post so I can refresh myself on everything

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OhThereYouAre

I read your other post....and in my controversial opinion, I wouldn't say that his actions are worthy of your time, much less your trust.

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"It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit..."

"People who lack the sense to question Big Lies always end up in deep trouble..."

"I don't worry about pointing fingers in the past...i operate under the assumption that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future..."

"Build the life you want and then find someone to share it with, someone who fits where you are and where you are going..."

LanaBear

Well - if you've been dating for 3 years, yeah, it's rude. But more to the point, based on the other thread and now this one, you need to get rid of the guy and move on.

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Kallygirlie

Yeah I totally agree with the others. This guy is not one to trust at all. Seems like he's wanting to have his cake and eat it to. Get rid of him

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