FUNNYGIRL724

I need help with this one, I am in my late 40's and am dating a man in his early 50's. We have been on 5 dates and our next date is going to be to this very romantic nice restaurant. I am very glad he is a nice guy and we have a great time together and the conversation is awesome, but he has not tried to kiss me. I am newly divorced and unsure of this entire dating world so I don't know what to expect and need to know if he sees me as a friend or a possible candiate for a future girlfriend. Thanks!

GlitterAndStuds

Some people like to take things very slowly, especially if they're gentlemen, much like he sounds to be. If these dates were actually dates, then I would assume that he sees you as a potential girlfriend and is maybe trying to feel things about before kissing you. It's possible that he wants it to be a special thing and hasn't had the right moment to do so yet.

I'd say to go out and enjoy your date. Have fun and flirt your butt off Just have fun and don't worry too much about it just yet.

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OhThereYouAre

He might be looking for cues from you.

Laughter, light touching and hair flipping do it for me.

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CHANDLERS WISH

I agree with the above guys..

If your newly divorced, then he may just be, being cautious for you, lord help me if he doesn't like kissing, nooooo...

So, if you like him express it with body language, look in his eyes, then go girly in embarrassment and look down then up again, half smile, touch his hand, that type of thing... He may just be waiting like OTYA states, for you to make a move.

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caterpillar79

Yep. Give subtle cues for the man, Madam!

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ThexMrs

Ditto to the rest of them.

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