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    Sorry for the lame title ahah couldnt think of anything better.

    In anycase, what do you women think of men actively grabbing your butt in public? with men I mean boyfriends, fiances, husbands, etc.

    My ex-boyfriend used to do it to me, but I felt a bit degraded and objectified when he did, where as i'd have my hands somewhere a bit more appropriate, he'd have them on my rear, and I'd begun to resent it, even in private.
    I think it somewhat lacks respect.

    But that's my perception of it.
    and yours?

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    Once upon a time the LOML used to do that. He wasn't inappropriate, doing it in away that might upset someone seeing him do it. I enjoyed it. It was kind of cute.
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    It's okay with me because I do it probably twice, thrice as often to him. Poor fella.

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    i love doing it to my guy! i get good reactions lol
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    I do it.

    Ha - sometimes I'll do it after I see some guy staring at her butt.

    Sometimes I get carried away and smack too hard...she isn't a fan of that.

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    My guy does it, I do it. I don't feel bad when he does it... I'd feel bad if he DIDN'T. If you don't like anything, your guy should respect how you feel. But I think that if he's groping on you because he genuinly wants to touch your body thats a good sign that he's still playful.

    If hes just doing it in front of a bunch of buddies and embarassing you... I can see how that could feel demeaning.
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    It doesn't really bother me, but it depends what kind of social situation we are in. I'm not really fond of the booty grabbage like in the grocery store, but if we're at a party or a bar or something like that, whatever, that's a more casual situation.

    The worst place I ever witnessed this was at a funeral. My boyfriend's sister's guy was groping on her butt while the family was crying and mourning the death of their grandmother. not appropriate... handsies offsies til granny gets planted and you're in the privacy of your own home okay...
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    I guess it's just me then ahahah, maybe it's partly that I felt trapped when i was with him. I'm happy you guys enjoy the butt groping so much though

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    If its a stranger then that's not cool.but if its a guy friend or a guy I'm into,then I don't really take offense to it. I would be offended if a bf of mine bf didn't smack or grab my butt. Lol

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    Haha I don't mind if my boyfriend does it. I do it to him all the time... but discreetly. We usually save the butt grabbin' for when we're home

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