Thread: Bf.. Old sex tape?

Oh my God, I've done the same thing and had almost the same results lol

I found 10+ year old pictures of him and his ex having sex. I was disappointed because I thought he would have thrown them by the time I moved in, but knowing how lazy he is I can understand why. It bothered me a little bit, since sex is an issue for us and he hardly ever does to me what he did to her in these pictures, so I burnt them the moment I found them. I didn't tell him anything until it came up months later during an argument that was sex related. I told him I had found them and I felt bad about it because he's not like that with me. He said those were very old, he had more energy back then and asked me to throw them since they meant nothing to him. I said I had already done so and he was ok with that. He wasn't upset about it, I got the feeling that he felt sorry he hadn't thrown them earlier and added that I am better than her anyway (at least he tried to patch things up performance-wise).

Although, now that I recall, I found those pics when I was cleaning an old furniture and not out of snooping. Snooping has led me to finding old humongous phone bills abroad, dating and escort sites, a chat log of a girl who undressed for him for money one time he was drunk, and post cards of girls who had a crush on him (or had told him they loved him and I wasn't aware of). I did it because I wanted to know what kind of man I was moving in with and I'm glad I did because we discussed about it all. Needless to say he had shown me suspicious signs beforehand. I've shared an apartment with an ex before but I didn't think of doing the same.

But I think your man has most likely just forgotten about the tape or just hasn't bothered to throw it. I remember I've done the same, had kept such photos of an ex and when my boyfriend (at the time) found them he got mad enough to hit me and abuse me about them. All that because I didn't bother to delete them from the computer.