Thread: Two months since breakup....still no contact

Hi guys. I appolgize ahead of time for the length of this post and the fact that I'm rambling on about this. It's one in the morning and I can't sleep.
If you don't want to read my previous thread, I'll sum it up: My boyfriend of six months broke up with me about two months ago due to the fact that he went away to college. We had no problems what-so-ever besides that he felt "distant" and instead of trying to work things out he just ended it. He knew I was still 100% invested in the relationship at the time, but he just wasn't anymore. He is the kind of person who likes to experience new things and go with the flow. I'm sure he just didn't want to have a girlfriend at home holding him back. Although I was very upset for quite some time, I let it go.

When we broke up he said he wanted to still be friends, and that we'd contact each other when we were ready. It's been two months and I've tried contacting him twice, when I was ready, and he's ignored both of my attempts (once a text, once a private facebook message). He was supposed to come home a while ago for the weekend, but decided not to (very obviously because of me- he decided not to come home a few hours after I had sent him a message. And his facebook status was that he had "cleared his head" and decided not to come home).
I don't want to be pushy so I haven't said anything since. The ball is in his court. But I really just want some closure. I want to be friends again, or atleast be acquaintances. Besides being a couple, we were best friends. I can tell you without a doubt in my mind that there is not a SINGLE thing that he does not know about me. Big or small. He knows every insecurity, fear, secret, family issue....I could go on and on.
Anyway, he is coming home in one week, for sure. And my group main of friends is his main group of friends. Or I should say "was" his group of friends. Because he has cut off all contact with basically everyone. (Prior to us breaking up, I was the only one from home he talked to). I would really like to see him. I'd like to know how he's doing. I CARE about him. I don't even want him back as a boyfriend anymore but I do want him back as a friend. My best friend tried texting him the other day and he (surprisingly) responded to her and after a few texts back and forth even asked how I was. She told him I was doing well, working hard on my college applications, and excited for the new show I am in. And then he all of a sudden stopped responding. Then 45 minutes later she texted him again about something else and he responded, completely ignoring the other text. It's as if he wants me to not be ok or something. I don't get it. He could have atleast pretended to care. It's a TEXT. She wouldn't have known the difference.
And to make matters WORSE, I have a friend who is a year older than him at the same college, in the same major. She became friends with him through me this past summer because I thought it would be good for him to know somebody in his department so he could ask her for advice, etc. They have become really good friends, which wouldn't bother me if it weren't for the fact that now she has been acting really weird towards me. I feel like she doesn't like me anymore. I won't know for sure until I see her in person when she comes home, but I can just tell that shes going to be awkward.
And this whole thing is making me really upset. I don't know what he is thinking. I don't know what she is thinking. Maybe they are even hooking up! Although its unlikely, who knows?
I know there could be a million reasons for why hes not talking to me. And I know that going back to being best friends is very very unlikely. But a simple "hi, how are you?" shouldn't be that much to ask for. I should be the one upset- he broke up with ME! He cannot avoid contact with me forever unless he wants to spend his holidays and summers without his friends... This whole thing is just dumb.
I know it'll work out. It's just very upsetting that he doesn't seem to care enough about me to even check up on me. He's acting so out of character right now. I know he must still care about me. He must. But he’s seems to be so wrapped up in college he’s completely oblivious to how immature he’s acting. There have been things I've really needed to tell him and haven't been able to. That's what kills me most of all. I miss talking to him.
And he should appreciate how cool I’ve been about this whole thing. Because his ex-girlfriend before me was not psychologically stable. She scarred him emotionally, blew up in his face the second they broke up, and stalked him for years claiming she was still in love with him. Oh and she friended him on facebook the DAY we broke up. Yeah. He should be happy I’m not like her and that I’m emotionally ok and that he doesn’t have to worry about me doing anything extreme like starving myself or cutting my wrists over him. But is a “how are you” so much to ask? It's been two months. He should be over whatever guilt he is feeling by now.
I don't know whats going to happen when he comes home next week, but what I DO know is I tried my best to contact him and there is nothing more I can/should do... Please tell me if this rambling made any sense. I'm not sure if I'm being reasonable or if I'm just in my own little fantasy world where things all work out.