Super Nervous about my date with a SUPER hot man! HELP!!

**kygirl** · 12-07-2009 01:02 PM

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

Ahh, he may still call. Hasn't even been a week. Perhaps he's a busy guy....maybe even dating a few different ladies right now and deciding what is right for him, what he wants to pursue. As there are no shortage of men, there probably isn't a woman shortage either, and of course he is quite good looking and charming so I'm sure he has a full calendar. Try not to get a bitter taste, because you never know.

If he waits TOO long, and then calls (like a month or something), I'd tell him I'm not interested.

Every date brings you one step closer to finding the one I suppose.

You're right...he may call, but I guess I've seen "He's just not that into you" enough to know if a guy wants to talk to you, he'll call or text or email or something.

He was contacting me almost every day prior to the date...

And there are other guys that are trying to Woo me that are taking some initiative so hot or not, looks aren't going to keep him in the runnings for long... A week is definitely the absolute cutoff. It's not like he's traveling on business or something

**Beautiful Disaster** · 12-07-2009 01:07 PM

Smart lady you are.

**Futureboy** · 12-07-2009 01:26 PM

You went out Thursday and it was good he call call you 'cos it's the weekend because he'll think your busy or he is or wants to appear busy. He doesn't want to be too keen, turn off. Tuesday would be when I called you then you would have stuff to talk about no call by wednesday then he was probably run over by a bus.

**kygirl** · 12-07-2009 01:46 PM

Originally Posted by Futureboy

You went out Thursday and it was good he call call you 'cos it's the weekend because he'll think your busy or he is or wants to appear busy. He doesn't want to be too keen, turn off. Tuesday would be when I called you then you would have stuff to talk about no call by wednesday then he was probably run over by a bus.

Well, it was actually Wednesday night, but it's super easy to send a text and say how's the weekend going? Or our fav bball team played Saturday and WON which would have been a great segway... I'm not saying he won't call, but from my experience, guys that are interested, usually do so within 3-4 days... IF by some miracle, he had swine flu or amnesia the last 5 days and calls tomorrow, I wouldn't complete rule him out.

But I'm not going to hold my breath

**Futureboy** · 12-07-2009 02:05 PM

The problem is as soon as you think about it things don't work. Why I don't know that's the way it's always been for me. These days I think of good dates and how well to treat someone the interaction whether I should kiss then or not. When I don't think it all just falls into place. The more intelligent you are the more annoying it is. Yes I am talking am me, Rant over

**kygirl** · 12-07-2009 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by Futureboy

The problem is as soon as you think about it things don't work. Why I don't know that's the way it's always been for me. These days I think of good dates and how well to treat someone the interaction whether I should kiss then or not. When I don't think it all just falls into place. The more intelligent you are the more annoying it is. Yes I am talking am me, Rant over

Yeah, I totally understand. I analyze the out of it. But I am not going to this time... Just going to move on and focus on someone else. I was 100% myself and I had a great time. If he didn't feel the same way, well then, it just wasn't meant to be!

**Futureboy** · 12-07-2009 02:16 PM

At least you were true to yourself

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 12-07-2009 06:07 PM

Originally Posted by kygirl

Yeah, I totally understand. I analyze the out of it. But I am not going to this time... Just going to move on and focus on someone else. I was 100% myself and I had a great time. If he didn't feel the same way, well then, it just wasn't meant to be!

Good for you... That's the way to be and the way to think as well