Thread: Perceptions

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

It seems you have dated and gotten to know both these guys extensively enough to be considering getting serious with either one of them... I think you are at a point now (in a perfect world it would have been sooner) where you should start focusing on the one that captures your heart most and letting go of the other before more emotions become involved and the entanglement is even more inter-weaved.

I think I've made a decision actually. The guys kind of chose for me. I have to be careful because I find that I think that there is something "wrong" with a guy if he actually seems interested in me... I know..that's a whole different story. So I catch myself being drawn to men who require me to be on edge, to work for it if you will. Not sure where it comes from but some of it is probably my perception that if a guy is too eager to like me that something is wrong that I don't know about. And well, that's just silly.

I'm still not rushing into anything, but we'll see how the next few weeks go and if this develops into something or not

glad to see you are following the wise words of Ron White!