How should i act on the first date?

**amyjo** · 02-22-2010 05:16 AM

i love what u wrote Sourpuss!
because its like when one guy doesnt like u back, u feel like no one will. which isn't true. and maybe i haven't noticed anyone else at my school. i guess because i already know everyone here, i don't see it. but i didn't notice that other guy right away either. i don't really know how but i didn't notice him before, so maybe that's the circumstance with the new guy i meet. and yes, i wonder if someone does like me and i don't even know it because there too shy to say something. usually when someone likes me, i'm always the last to find out. lol

**Branwen** · 04-01-2010 08:39 PM

Originally Posted by SinisterUrge

Usually after 2 or 3 dates you know enough about somebody to tell if they're somebody you actually want a relationship with, or just somebody who looks cute but you have no connection with.

well, it took me 4 months to realize he was not serious about me and that he has some serious issues with his personality...the problem I think was we had sex on the first "blind" date and we liked it a lot so we continued on that direction...
so my question: when should people have sex? after 2 or 3 dates then?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-02-2010 04:01 AM

I think that people miss the boat

They know you like them and they think about it, but you know, their heart is with this other person and they kind of wait off, to see..

But if this other girl is kind of trying to decide, then he's going to not date huh...

And, so the story goes

Good luck sweet.

Branwen....

If a guy has sex on the first date, "in my opinion" it is just that sex.. He doesn't take the woman seriously, because he questions this... and, he never go to know you, like you...

I kind think you "know"... not chemistry but a feeling... Chemistry is what makes you react immediately.... knowing someone is alot different.

Is there a time?

Nup...

But, I wouldn't ever do it on the first date, they need to know that when you do, it's because of them, you like them... Not that you are horny and have chemistry, if they feel that, then they don't see you..

Just follow your gut... But hang off for at least if you can two dates and see if you have a connection outside of chemistry.

CW

**angel_123** · 04-02-2010 05:51 AM

Originally Posted by amyjo

well i've been talkin with this guy for about a week. we've known eachother for a few months but we never actually talked alot or hung out. but now we are. and his younger sister is completely awesome. and we are starting to hang out. were going to my guys game tonight! i cant wait. we made signs for it too! lol =)

so yesturday i was talkin to his sister and i was saying me and my guy should go to the movies. and she talked to her bro at their home and he wants to go. and its gonna be a date. it will be me and my guy and her and her bf. a double date! im excited. but how should i act on the date. bc i need to continue to convey the fact that i like him. but how. bc a movie is a great way to be with him and to silently convey the fact that i like him. and were not an official couple yet...but this night could make us become one. idk.

but any ideas as to how i should act on my date?????....

Wow! First date... hmmm mine was along time ago lol..

Dating is the most exciting moment that happens in our lives

Even oldies get giddy thinking about it.

Be yourself, just be yourself and be beautiful!