Well I only dream of having biceps like yours. And of course, you're a stunning woman. But you're not the "norm" girl....so yeah, I'm sure that when you date someone they don't have a history of dating "girls like you". I mean come on, you're gorgeous, athletic, could kick most guys butts, are independant, strong, but for someone who really wants to see the layers, you're sweet, compassionate, and romantic too!

Most of the things that make a girl "feel pretty", are the things we do for ourselves. i.e. a special outfit, a new pair of shoes, a new hairdo, etc etc. I think the key is feeling pretty BEFORE you find the guy. And it's not that I think you don't think you're pretty, but I think you're definitely self conscious of your 'tomboyishness" and probably have heightened sensitivity to it from the get go. If you feel beautiful/sexy, you're way more likely to be perceived that way.