Thread: Why do es always win?

Well unfortunately it sounds like the only answer to that, in my opinion, is hang around a few years and let this Aiden mature from a completely typical teenage horndog... That probably isn't the answer you wanted but it's pretty obvious you both are extrmely young and this is just a huge case of raging hormones all over the place. He's "hot", therefore you want him. He is apparently a smooth talker, you want him MORE...he belongs to another girl... You reallllllly want him now. And he obviously is just looking for female attention, lots of it... I could sit here and tell you he is bad news and it will only end in heartbreak and jealousy for you, but I'm pretty sure it's not really gonna matter to you that much. Just remember- your asking him to be a MAN, when it's apparent he isn't yet. It's like asking for a high fat/high sugar diet to help you loose weight---ain't gonna happen

I am seeing alot of teens on here loking for advice! I am just wondering why they are not talking to the parents for advice! I know they do not want to talk to their parents or feel uncomfortable doing it, but they should! Also, teenage girls worry too much about guys too early in their life when they need to be concentrating on school and college!! Yes teen boys are horndogs and I even know some 60 yo too that are still that way! Men think about sex more often then women! Thats how their brains are wired! I's normal! You girls just need to keep that in mind! Once they get what they want, they are on to the next woman to conquer! It's a game, some grow out of it and grow up and some never grow up! Just my 2 cents spend it how you like!

Originally Posted by ocularone

Just remember- your asking him to be a MAN, when it's apparent he isn't yet. It's like asking for a high fat/high sugar diet to help you loose weight---ain't gonna happen

LOL - Love it. And no more true words can be said than that. I'm sure there are boys your age that can be good boyfriends and not break your heart but this aidan... doesn't sound like one of them.

All the girlies like him, he knows it , and he wants all the cake. One day he may get bored of just flirting with dozens of girls and want all of the attention of a special young lady like yourself... but it doesn't sound like he's ready for something like that.

Maybe keep your eyes open to other guys that you might even end up liking more than aidan if you gave them a shot. Right now should be about having fun with your friends and a guy in your life should only compliment your life as it is... not be a cause for stress or hurt feelings -- too much other stuff to worry about than that.