Thread: Masturbating?!

With an attractive young lady who enjoys sex, foreplay and intimacy, how could he do it himself and deny you the chance of enjoying the feel together? Something must be wrong here. You should ask him why.

Do you think it is a self esteem thing? bordom? am I making it too easy for him? he swears he enjoys sex and only does it to get rid of a feeling....

Is he just being lazy? Does he have fantasies that he needs to make it more enjoyable that you don't know about.
Sounds like you need to communicate about what he likes.

Does he have some degree of performance anxiety? Yeah, sounds like he is missin' out a lot. Time to air out the laundry, girl!

Other posters have also had this problem - and it is a problem. Is his masturbation interfering with him having sex with you?

How often do you guys see each other? If it's not often, then MAYBE he does it when he can't be with you for a quick release and doesn't get why he's too tuckered out later.

If you see him all the time or live with him... then I agree with the others, it should be addressed. You shouldn't get turned down when you're ready and willing, that would bother me too.

Maybe he didn't get the climate he wanted from you so he jacks off himself. You could explore your style or positions or could you be the problem? Best of all have an open discussion with him. Best of luck.

Maybe he's just selfish!