Thread: i'm hot and i'm cold,i'm yes and i'm no,i'm in and i'm out! :-p

At your age, you have plenty of time to shack-up with someone and have a family later. So you should put those thoughts aside for now and be playing the field right to get valuable experience--and pleasure if you're sexually smart about it.

I'd say that by giving him exclusive rights to you, you;re robbing all the other guys out there. But maybe I'm wrong; maybe he's just 'the one' only he does a truly excellent job of covering up the fact. (Note sarcasm.)

Robbing the guys of their chance to gain sex? Be sexually smart and sleep around?

Um, seriously, I disagree that this is going to help a woman, you can gain great sexual experience, by finding a partner that is on your level sexually you don't have to sleep with every guy to get that experience, or a name for that matter.


You state that your in a "distant" relationship. But, you talk about his clothes being screwn across the place, doesn't do dishes... So, he stays with you sometimes?

Do you know for sure he's playing the piano for 3hrs and went for a job, and will be working with his father? Seems, these are the things you have mentioned to him and all of a sudden he is doing..... Words are words...

You say he's possessive. And, he lives for just being around you, with you and doesn't care for anything else. Maybe, that's the reason why you 1) find it sweet, but then 2) find it scary and over the top and don't like it and you want to breathe.

You may have a drive in life, goals, and he may have goals but no drive and it could be because his Mother did everything for him, but your both young and sometimes it takes a little time, called maturity before someone can act on their goals...

Your Sister's example is 10 years, she realises that she saw the signs much earlier but kept trying.

You I think have a fear, but I hurt him once, if I do it again, just to see what's out there in life, how other boys live, think, dream, work, and I'm wrong and I want to go back will he trust me?

He's possessive, he will ask a million questions, assume you slept with someone else, and so possibly not..

But, establish is he lying? Or is he playing the piano, going to work for his Dad, where is he possessive? Alot of guys throw their clothes in a heep and expect the woman to pick it up Their mum did, that's a hard one to break...

CW