Thread: Unsure.....advice please

How often do you see this 'friend'? What's your friendship like? Do you think that he likes you or it was just a boozey make out between friends?
When I broke up with my ex, I felt like I was immediately ready to start dating again. At first I felt bad, like I should give it time, but then I realized that, in my heart, I had already moved on years prior. I don't know if it's the same for you or not, just saying.
If it feels right, go with it. If your gut is telling you that it may not be, then don't. If you listen to your brain, you'll go in circles all day. Listen to your gut.

Well Adam and I are in contact each week maybe would see each other once a month slightly less or more, we share a hobby and I often help him out (we play in brass bands different ones) I'm unsure, he has being flirtacious for a couple of years but nothing definate.
We were talking the previous week and he was saying to me that he has just got over his girlfriend that died while he was at University this is now 3 1/2 years later and that the relationships he had since there were good but he wasn't over her death. My gut says protect yourself and him, I know i'm not ready yet but there is something there....