Thread: Sad after being let down by internet dater

Hey Lizzy,

Firstly, understand that your human, we all make management decisions that can go wrong

Secondly, life is about learning is it not? So, you will now be more aware for the future, so it's a good thing. You know, it's so easy to get caught up in "believing" when you so want romance and someone in your life... This person "promised" something. But, you don't know whether he broke that promise because, he was lying? Or, that because you had sex immediately, he assumed that, that he can't trust you? Or, that as you hadn't had the chance to give him that challenge, to get to know you more "inside", he didn't "feel" that connection and therefore made the decision, changed his mind.

So, in-other-words, your assuming he lied. That's 1 possibility but the other 2 possibilities are real as well, so don't beat yourself up.

You have to ask him though if you want closure...which reason it was and if it was the later, then rest assure, there in my mind was a soul connection between us, that is why I slept with you, in the "real world" you only gain that soul connection from quite a few dates, so I'm not easy but you obviously don't have an understanding of soul connections, best wishes in your journey.

Don't put yourself down over this...

But, if I can suggest? View any on-lining / long distance relationship as if it is dating 4, 5 times with someone in real life and don't give it up.. Because then you will know if they really wanted you? Or, just that booty call.

And remember, when you are lonely, "words" will make you "think" your in love. Always trust your intuition, don't believe anything until it becomes real..

Take your time, with any relationship sweet.

Again, though, don't beat yourself up...

CW