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    Sounds to me like he wants you to move in and is just testing the waters and trying to find out what you want. I would say be straight forward with him. As a guy there is nothing that drives me more crazy then trying to figure out what a woman is thinking. When you say things like maybe or I dont know it leaves everything up for interpretation. If you are unsure of your feelings or what you want to do let him know. Think of us guys as being completely oblivious as to what you are thinking. I have heard women before say well you should know what I feel or what I am thinking. I gaurantee 99% of the time we have some idea of whats going on but need clarification. There is nothing that helps us more then being straight forward and 100% HONEST with us. Ask him what he wants and tell him what you want and feel. Leaving things open for interpreation only leads to problems. If he respects your feelings and cares about you then he will understand how you feel about the situation. I assure you all doubts or concerns will be taken care of if you guys communicate well and are honest.

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    Thank you abc123 its always good to hear a guys point of view on these things. I agree communication is the best way forward but i do not want to come across a nag or putting pressure on him. I know he does see a future together.

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    Honesty is also the best policy.. If you don't communiate you get caught in this world pool of guessing.

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    This are the signs that he tell you that both live together,you just tell him what he want and this is a better and if you are in relationship then you get a married soon,if you both love each other then you easily understand him or he understand you,always clearly talk what you both want this are a really help you.
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    Tell him what YOU want. It's not all about one person, and what that person wants. And if he's not okay with that, then to me, the relationship isn't what you need. He may just be lonely and want you over more. You could do it, every once in awhile and see how it goes.

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    We talked over the weekend, and he was the one brought the conversation up and basically said he'd like me to stay over more and wants to plan a future with me. We have agreed without rushing to far ahead I am to stay over a bit more and to see were it takes us. Communication is the key in any relationship.

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