Thread: Older men : pros and cons

Younger or older, they (we) all have our own set of traits; mature, immature; miserly, generous; controlling, open minded, etc...I don't think there is a set age to any of these things. I've dated younger, older, and my own age; they all had things I liked/disliked. A younger one was very controlling and jealous, but financially stable. An older one was immature, but had a very free spirit, and money/employment problems. I think it all depends on compatibility.

I have found that younger men in their 30's are much more respectful, loving, and less self-absorbed or threatened than men my age, mid forty's and older.

One might add, more " trainable " to an Mature Woman's needs and Wants ?
I think they Women call them " BOY TOYS ".

And Older or Mature Fit women who spend their lives trying to stay abreast with the " Younger Woman that they No Longer Are " .

Us, the ones who must Face that we are Growing older and trying to hold on to the Fountain of Youth and have younger men lust after us . And totally diss the men who are mature, that will actually love us, when our Butts do fall or Sag, Boobs will Sag, wrinkles will form, Hair will thin and go grey.

Those men , that are " Ugly of Body to some, are the Purest of Gold in the Lives of the Women they Love . Regardless of that age or Age Difference.

I attract younger men because I look younger than I am and they are not intimidated by my career and are more laid back too.

You don't state your Age, but seem to be more attracted to the 30 year old guys ? The Mold-able ones who are not as secure, in their Job, don't have a wife or Family, just been Divorced, Maybe in between women ?

Not saying that is a Bad thing, but am wondering why you married an old guy to start with ? Was it for Love or because he was Mature, had some Money, maybe a Home , fast car, you know the " Sugar Daddy thing " ?

Have all of your Friends said the same thing ?

That they Married and after a few years got bored and wanted " Young Studs " ?
It is all good and Well to keep Fit and Healthy, But an Open Mind and Healthy Heart is just as Important as a Healthy Body.

Then again, will we still be looking at 30 year old's when we are 10 years down the road ? I wonder. I know I can't and couldn't think of it ( sexually ) especially since my oldest is almost 40 and I'm 56 now.

But if when I am 66 and some young 40 year old tells me I'm Hot or even don't look my age. I sure will appreciate it.. Though I get that now at 56 . I just thank them , tell them I promise I won't tell their Mama, and Smile through the Day .

Number three, we live in a society where going after younger women is the norm although it is not normal, especially by God's standards

Hopefully not trying to be Personal ( to you ) here .

But you mention Gods standards. And I am confused here as to if the God you believe in or allows Older Woman to have Relations with Younger Men ?

Many of of us People, both Male and Female have been Abused, Victimized, Families Torn apart by Over Relationships. From all Genders and Ages .

I'd seriously rather fall in Love or Date an older man,that has raised his kids, lost his wife and has fought a War or 3 Wars and him be in a wheel chair, than go play with some Youngin Stud that thinks my Body is Hot !!!
He must think My Mind is Hot too or just my Spirit ..

And I still have my Young Men under 35, Say " Your One Hot Mama" and I explain I am Not a " Cougar " go find someone like me but more their Age & Maturity !!


* KM * I don't think she was being Pretentious, I just think she might want to see and Old Lady's View "
And I'm still a Sexy Ole Lady .. or so I'm told .

So lets give Katie a chance to reply . I'm interested in this one. My ex hubby is 25 years older than me and he cheated on me for OLDER WOMEN .. And that was In 1984 . Actually it was over 3 older Women.

Sucks.. But he's still a Friend & we still love each other as Friends .