I think you're just not that into him in a "relationship" kind of way right now. You like him as a person, as a friend, and probably enjoyed the newness of it all in the beginning. He's now moving at warp speed and you're still going "Umm what just happened!?!?". I'm not sure why some people move soooo fast.
I think honesty is typically always the best policy. If you don't tell him to "spare" his feelings, you'll hurt him MUCH more in the long run and there's very little chance he'd ever want to be your friend after that. Be honest, talk to him. Don't make excuses to him (class schedules etc).......just be honest about your feelings, where you stand, how you feel, and what you're willing to have with him right now. There's nothing wrong with that.
I am glade you are being honest with him. He seems really taken with you so I think he will be willing to let you set the pace. About the change in major, I think you'll find in time you will have much more to talk about because you'll bring different things to the table. Could get boring if you are both doing same thing so enjoy the difference. You can always develop common interest in time.
i say be up front and honest, after all honesty is the best policy, give it a go and if it not working for for still in a month, end it and move on. dont waste your lifew with a guy you dont think you could love,
your frienship may or may not continue, thats a decision you both have to agree on,
all the best
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