Thread: I'm I ready?

From recent personal experience, I would say certainly do NOT jump back in to the the dating pool, those are shark infested waters when your heart, head and soul are still so fragile. Yes the confidence boost would be great in the short period but I have found you have to give yourself time to heal, to figure out "what the just happened to me", "why" and "what do I want from my life" and be happy in your own skin and life. Im not saying I have figured all those things out in five months but im a lot closer to knowing now and happier. Throwing yourself out there could make you more insecure, make you question yourself, your qualities in a negative way.
Before dating you need to know your happy being on your own, because if you don't know this you will cling to men and relationship as they make you whole. You need to know your worth and what fantastic qualities you have and will give to another person.

You are going to get hurt again, thats just how it is, but the good times in between are worth it, and one day it will last. Get back into the dating field once you feel comfortable again to do so.

Sweetie if you are unsure then you are not ready... But that said that doesn't mean you can't have a good time. Go out with girlfriends or alone if you are brave enough. After a six year relationship you need time to find yourself again. Before you can even think about dating again you need to know that you can be happy alone. Spend sometime really getting to know yourself and having fun and before you know it your ex will be a distant memory. Then you will be ready to date again. The other girls prob said it better but I hope I helped a little.