Thread: Not to sure what to think...

Hi guys...

So I met this guy about a year ago when I was with my ex boyfriend at a birthday party.. My first thought about this guy was wow hes super cute.. thought nothing of it..I was super happy with my guy.. continued on with my life.. well last summer my bf called it quits.. life goes on... well we were both invited to a wedding and the bride and groom asked for us both to attend.. so i did.. saw this super cute guy there again.. exchanged a few words and were on our ways... he had a gf at the time that he was on the frits with.. i had no idea..

Well a three weeks ago i found this guy on facebook going through some old photos.. i decided to add him.. well he instantly accepted the friend request and mesg me back asking how i was.. i gave it a couple days and mesg him back.. he then asked about my ex.. asked him who (lol) and responded to the rest of the email.. well he then invited me to a party that weekend.. i went, had a fantastic time and ended up staying there.. nothing happened.. we spooned called it a night and i left in the morning.. when i was leaving he didnt hug me or say anything really... my gf who came with sd he was really into me but didnt know how to show it.. well we started talking everyday after that.. we ended up doing a movie at his house on thursday of last week.. everything went well.. we exchanged a few kisses and that was good.. he did invite me to a party for the following saturday, but i had plans.. we continued to text through the weekend..

I got home sunday night and invited him to do something.. he said he wasnt feeling good and monday would be better.. well monday rolled around and he left work early and wasnt really up for seeing anyone but his pillow.. i didnt really reply.. i was busy doing something.. when i checked my phone he sent me a mesg saying i was just thinking about you.. me being silly and falling for it said.. although i hate to admit it, i was thinking about you too.. aww soo sappy! lol We talked, he sd that he wouldnt be his normal self that night bc he wasnt feeling good and suggested we do something on wed.. well after his nap he got up and we talked.. he then invited me over to come snuggle.. i said that i would be there till after 11 and that was super late.. he agreed.. i sd hows about tuesday? He sd he would, but he was having some buddies over.. ok, wed it is.. we said good night and that was it.. we talked tues.. nothing special.. wed rolls around and i ask him if he wanted to get sushi before our movie.. he sd that he has to fix his tv (blew it out at the toga party) and he then wanted to work out.. i sd does 8 work.. he sd yes.. then he proceeded to say that when we started hanging out his schedule went to and he needs to get back into it.. I didnt really respond.. i kinda got the feeling maybe he isnt into it.. well i then get a text mesg saying that im gonna hate him.. he has to cancel and get all his together and be in bed for 9pm, hes gotta be up at 5am to continue his p90x workout.. i didnt respond.. i was upset.. he then sent me a msg an hour later say lol now you dont like me... i got it an hour after he sent it.. i sent him one saying just busy.. left it at that, he didnt get back to me.. i later than mesg him asking if he was still awake.. i had calmed down and felt i was ready to talk about it.. he sd that he was just getting in to bed i said okie dokie.. he sd lol

That is were it ended.. I havent sd anything to him... he hasnt sd anything to me.. except i just sent him an email asking what happened.. i didnt mention anything like we or us.. just simply wanting to know why it went afrey.. i did ask if he just wasnt interested in it/me or if he was super busy with business, the house and getting back into routine..

Now the question is.. was i a dork for sending that? Im merely just wanting to know how everything was super chill to us not saying a single word.. meh men! lol Sooo confusing...