1. He needs to quit giving these women power over him, starting with no good mornings, no hello's , no brief smiles, nothing -- he's to give them nothing not even irritation, nothing.
For some, negative attention is better than no attention so he shouldn't scowl at them or be mean or rude he should simply ignore them all together. They will soon move on to another target that is giving them what they need: Power.
They can't have him, so they don't want him having anyone. I'd strongly suggest he look outside of classes where he is nearby these girls for women to approach, sure that makes them win for a while -- but again they will eventually move on to something more rewarding , positively or negatively.
So, 1, ignore the girls all together and 2, don't hit on chicks in front of them for a while until they move their psychotic stalking to someone else.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
My guess is, they are playing him..
He's in his 30's at Uni and single..
They are telling these girls he's gay..
That's the only conclusion I can come to if, they seem put off after what has been said.. They'd slap him, if she said she was his girlfriend..
How to counteract that, I'm not sure, if that's the case.
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Maybe he can throw them off. Does he have any other females people (classmates, people around campus) who he's not interested in like that, but can trust somewhat? Then he can casually throw out while around those girls (not directly too them) that he's going to ask her out. They go run and tell her what we all want to know, and she can relay the info to him.
I agree that this is really strange. He does need to stop talking to them, to me it sounds like he's trying to be the nice guy, but he doesnt want to get duped and have something bad happen from this. No more Mr. Nice Guy.
That's what also crossed my mind. That he's either gay or married, I cannot think of anything else. But how nasty can a person be, as to spread words that someone is gay because he turned her down. We're talking about a real betch then.Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH
We certainly are...
I'm not saying he's gay but I bet that's what they have said.
Yes beatches, who are princesses, think they are hot, and get rejected WILL see him as being gay, as to why she was rejected...
Perhaps tell him our thoughts thereAnd, perhaps he can stand his ground and say, you ain't all that woman, I heard you said I was gay, pftttt.. you have tickets on yourself, perhaps you wish for me to suggest to people your a lesbian.or fridged
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
When he first called me about it I told him to give me some time to think. So I came here to post, got a few ideas and then gave him the feedback. He loved it. You guys and girls are helpful, as always.
I can't wait to hear what happened, tried to call but he doesn't answer...
But those girls, how can they believe whatever others say? They barely know each other and if someone told me that a guy is gay I'd probably talk with him even more then. Let alone how disappointed I'd be in the girl who'd tell me, as it would be none of her business to spread words here and there. Besides, gay men make perfect friends!
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