Thread: what should I do?

Originally Posted by kristalyn04

GAH!! Ok, seriously, enough... I have my mind made up. I am NOT ready for a relationship, I don't want one right now, I just want to get laid. That's it. Sex with myself and a vibrator is not the same as with another person. I think we all know that. This guy does genuinely care about me, he's concerned about me getting hurt from this situation and we've discussed it extensively. Yeah, he does want sex and you could argue that he's "using" me for that, but consider that you could say the same thing about me... I also want sex without commitment. As I said, this arrangement will take a lot of trust between us. I'm ok with this, I have thought about it, and decided that I just want to have some fun without being tied down. This is not entirely a FWB situation, we are dating... we go out and do things together and enjoy each others company, which sort of blurs the line a bit. Yes, it's very possible that I could get emotionally attached to him, same could happen with him. The second I feel that happening, we talk about it. If one of us doesn't want more, we say our goodbyes and just be friends before someone gets hurt. I'm a big girl, I can handle this. If I do get hurt, I'll deal with it... I have been through much worse. Right now, this is what I want and need, case closed. Thank you for your concern everyone, but I'll be fine. Move aside ladies... I am getting LAID!!

Sounds good - it's not a FWB, it's friends having sex. There is a difference because you care about each other. There is nothing like a dk to make a girl happy.

He's already been tested before we started having sex, we are both clean. However, we are not exclusive... so something can still happen. We agreed to keep lines of communication open about whatever goes on, but I'm not risking getting pregnant or getting an STI. We are using condoms, for now, even though he is whining about it. Tough noogies! LOL If at some point we become exclusive, then I'll look into BC.