Thread: Should i contact him???

Why don't you spend Christmas in France?

I thought of sending him a message in a few weeks , when it will be his birthday...
And for the trip in France, i might tell him that i m indeed planing to go to Paris for new year's Eve

Do you want to keep contact with him? Do you want it to go anywhere? Or were you just liking the attention when he was contacting you?

of course i want to keep in contact with him, and he is one of the reasons am planning this trip to Paris...I hope he ll be there and meet!
But generally i feel a bit strange, like i am afraid of giving into him and into this situation... and i feel that he is also kind of afraid to get into this strange condition
with the distance and all that.
From my part i am willing to meet him whenever i can! But i don't have the courage to show him all that i could do for him, of fear that he would be scared or something like that...
and i also keep thinking if it a "relationship" can beeb founded when you have such distance problems!

I think you should go ahead and contact him.....what do you have to lose. if you don't your gonna always wonder.

It is doubtful that he sees you in the relationship mode but someone who he likes well enough to have sex with when it is not too complicated. If that's what you want then go or it. If you want someone who is really into you look elsewhere. If he is making no effort to be with you, calling you over and taking you back to his apt is no effort at all, then make no more effort towards him. If your looking for something more sustained let the guy pursue you a bit then you know is is at lest halfway attracted. Men say they like women to approach them and that's ok for casual thing but chancy if you are looking for something serious. The relationship starts with you pursuing him. When a man feels a chemistry with a woman he will work hard to get her.