I need a quick fix I HATE hickies and my boyfriend knows it

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-17-2010 03:52 PM

I can just see the OP pulling away fast and hard, and bumping her head on the person on the left of her in their seat

OP, do you think that he is either doing it, thinking it's funny as you don't like it or that he loves your hair long, down, flowing and this way he gets to see your hair down?

I don't think I can think of many men who don't like a woman with long hair, flowing.. Perhaps, that's his hidden agenda

Ask him.

You could try a cover stick, with powder, foundation will make it look red, but cover sticks are designed to cover up little red blood spots, and do work well...

But ultimately, the fact that you spent three quarters of the Thread on " I don't like hickies" and 1 paragraph on how to hide it, spells that it's really annoying you now, as our members have clearly noted as well, and replied with their thoughts..

I think you have to seriously,tell him it's not funny anymore, and discuss the reasons and logic of why he continues to do it.. It may very well be that he loves your hair down, or that he's telling all other men back off she's mine

CW

**Agony_Aunt** · 10-17-2010 04:01 PM

Apply a dab of toothpaste to the hickey as soon as you notice the hickey on your body. The toothpaste will actually help to heal it and get the red out of it

Wash off the toothpaste completely after the toothpaste has sat for at least 30 minutes on the hickey. Dry off the skin

Dab a little bit of makeup concealer onto a sponge and apply it to the hickey. Make sure that the makeup concealer matches the skin where the hickey is. After using the toothpaste, the hickey should easily be covered by the concealer

jr · 11-01-2010 01:29 PM

So when your 26 you can't have tremendous passion for your girl?

C'mon Casey, what are you thinking? She has previously expressed to him that she DOES NOT LIKE hickies. So why doesn't he understand that? Why don't you?
It has nothing to do with "tremendous passion for your girl"...how about abuse? Abuse of her body? She said no, so the answer is no. Abuse of her trust? She was into the movie, he was into her and she -u-me-d that she could trust him...look what happend.

Men trying to justify inappropriate behavior, especially after the woman they love has said NO! Makes me sick! No wonder so many women think men are nothing but pigs!

**Casey715** · 11-01-2010 08:31 PM

jonnie_rocks, sorry if I rubbed you the wrong way. I don't try and justify every off the wall remark. But I am serious on this one. Do I understand the OP had made it clear she did not want hickies, yes. I was just giving MY perspective. Its OK to see thing differently. Its what makes places like this so great.

**Awoman2** · 11-02-2010 02:11 PM

This just sounds like a mountain being made out of a molehill.

Maybe he just likes sucking on you without it having anything to do with "marking territory". Maybe he doesn't even realize he's doing it. It's obviously a habit he needs to break out of if you don't like it. Just remind him when you see him going there. I'm sure he'll get the message.

I didn't even know hickies were restricted to a particular age. I'm only embarrassed about it if I don't know it's there, but I certainly won't flash it around. But how I got it is less of a bother to me than it attracting anyone's attention. I like being sucked all over so it's likely to happen.

But if it embarrasses you just give him a reminder before he gets carried away. It's really easy to get carried away.