If he's that shy, keep trying.Maybe then he'll try too!
Hello to everyone!Well,there's something that I'd like to share with you!And I really need your help!
There's a guy that I'm really into!Since I first noticed him,we used to check each other out!Of course,I was staring and he was just glancing!After a long time I was fed up with this situation and I decided to talk to him!And so it happened!I met him at a bar one night and went and introduced myself!Unfortunately we didn't say many things because I felt that he wasn't so willing to talk to me!Since then we started waving at each other!Every time we met!But that was all!We continued looking at each other but nothing more ever happened!I even invited him to my place so as to have a cup of coffee and get to know each other!I should add now that we are both students and live in a student residence and it's kind of usual to gather at one's place now and then!Well,he turned down my invitation,really politely I have to say!He told me he was kind of busy with a project!After that,we continued to do the same thing;looking at each other and just say hi!Until I took the decision to take more action!So another night we met in some place which was ideal to have some small talk!I said Hi as always and started a conversation with him!We talked about many issues,about our universities,our hometowns!He was quite friendly,willing to talk,he couldn't stop talking.Sometimes I had to interrupt him in order to say something and avoid to seem stupid!When he was talking to me ,he was looking at me straight in the eyes and sometimes even smilling!I haven't seen him since!It hasn't been a very long time!But now I wonder!What else can I do to get closer to him?Should i continue doing my thing,I mean talking to him or even invite him for a coffee?Or it would be better if I waited for him to take action?By the way I have figured out that he is a little shy!Is it possible that he has already understood what's going on?Is it possible that he could also be into me and just needs some time to express his feelings?
If he's that shy, keep trying.Maybe then he'll try too!
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Calm down a bit. Give it time. Work on being friends, if he is a little shy that will make it easier for him.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
Try to be friends with him and get to know him first.
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