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    Im guilty of dating at the moment and im not over my ex, we split AGAIN 2 months ago and he cheated on me as well.
    I was/am scared of dating and putting myself out there but i find its a great distraction and i can see people who are so much better!

    It is hard but if he cheated on you...well you can find someone so much better anyways!

    If i was you though... i would stop communication with him, it would make things a lot easier on yourself
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    Don't think of it as such a serious thing. You're becoming friends with people, and if it blossoms into something more, then that's wonderful. It's good to get out and meet new people.
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    Hes gone now. I understand it is really over and where I went wrong - I've learned from it but my heart is still healing at a slow process. I don't like being alone so Im going to start dating I think it'll help.

    After he cheated on me he gave me chlamydia and then got his new girl "almost pregnant" and all the other things I mentioned earlier. So he doesn't deserve another chance.

    Thanks for the great advise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnastasiaRose View Post
    Hes gone now. I understand it is really over and where I went wrong - I've learned from it but my heart is still healing at a slow process. I don't like being alone so Im going to start dating I think it'll help.

    After he cheated on me he gave me chlamydia and then got his new girl "almost pregnant" and all the other things I mentioned earlier. So he doesn't deserve another chance.

    Thanks for the great advise.
    I do hope that by, "where I went wrong", you meant letting this loser into your life.
    We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer

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    Quote Originally Posted by WildChild View Post
    I do hope that by, "where I went wrong", you meant letting this loser into your life.

    Yes that, and... getting too attached, being shy & not working on the sex.

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    Try to meet more men and learn their differences, in that way you can avoid to do the same mistakes again.
    Of course it was not your fault. That can also help you how to get over with your ex.

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