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    My friend guy and I have been friends for 2 years. Like a month ago we reconnected and started texting each other. He's really sweet,he respects me,and shows that he's concerned. Checks on me through out the day. I know he likes me and I like him. He does things that no guy would do if they didn't really like a female. Goes out his way to do things I ask. I told him I like him two weeks ago and he said he likes me but wasn't ready for a relationship. But just recently, a couple days ago, he stopped texting me, and meeting up with me at school. He doesn't really talk to me much anyone. Why is that? Do you think he's not interested anymore? I really need answers because I've been really depressed lately and losing sleep, because I really like him...Please help!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jonnie_rocks View Post
    Seems to have lost interest in you for whatever reason. May be another woman or didn't want to ruin your friendship.

    He probably isn't man enough to tell you, so he's taking the coward's way out by avoiding you/not communicating with you.

    If this is the type of man he is, then move on. You deserve better. Everyone does. Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Too many women do and then they wonder why their relationship sucks a short time later.

    The world is full of high quality guys. Go find yours!
    Thanks and my sister said maybe he needed some space and time to think, because when I stopped texting him he texted me to see how I was doing...So maybe that's it, and I have to admit too I was kind of rushing our relationship...

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    Always take what people say in..

    If he said, "not ready for a realationship" then that means either, he's not or he's shy and scared....

    That means he is either a good friend and wants nothing more, or is shy to go into a relationship and backed off...

    Until he says, yes actually I like you, you'll have to be that "friend" and see if it turns into anything without saying anything more as you've made your intentions clear...

    In addition Yessum, you are ready willing, and able to get into a relationship but don't confuse yourself with "anyone' ensure it's with someone you find perfect for you and not settling for "someone"...

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    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
    Always take what people say in..

    If he said, "not ready for a realationship" then that means either, he's not or he's shy and scared....

    That means he is either a good friend and wants nothing more, or is shy to go into a relationship and backed off...

    Until he says, yes actually I like you, you'll have to be that "friend" and see if it turns into anything without saying anything more as you've made your intentions clear...

    In addition Yessum, you are ready willing, and able to get into a relationship but don't confuse yourself with "anyone' ensure it's with someone you find perfect for you and not settling for "someone"...

    CW
    Well he's a gentlemen, shows that he likes me, so I know he likes me but idk why he's so scared...he texted me the other day after I gave him his space, idk what it is...maybe I was trying to rush him a little....Thanks for the advice

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    I think he's not yet ready for a relationship, like most guys do. if they are not interested then, they sometimes avoid talking to you because they are not a real man

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pau View Post
    I think he's not yet ready for a relationship, like most guys do. if they are not interested then, they sometimes avoid talking to you because they are not a real man
    Yea I thinks thats what it is...because he'll check on me ever now in then but other than that he sort of backs away.

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