Thread: I'm not the only guy who doesn't like the chase.

They probably put up with it because they've settled, worried that they can't do any better or thinking that a bad relationship is better than no relationship.

Oh she's repulsed by a good deal of them, they make their money on their very people they consider losers for going to see them in the first place. I've been around her and girls she works with and they never think highly of the guys that come and see them. Its probably that whole self-esteem thing we're talking about here... she may feel that what she is doing is bad and any guy that would pay to see it is also bad, much like the guy who thinks he's worthless to not be impressed by a girl that see's the value in him.

No she doesn't save, and yes her bf spends her money. She puts him in a different category because he won't pay to be around her... she doesn't respect men that hand her money.. so picked a bf that spends HERS.

Originally Posted by WildChild

So putting the stripper aside, they aren't that common although the behavior of the men is, what is up with men who committ to a woman who complains, demands, is high need, and gives little? Is this just the male form of women who put up with abusive men? Why do they stay? What do they get out of it?

Personally I wouldn't put up with a woman that is a complainer, demanding, and/or is a high maintenance type woman. Why would anyone? You know what means the most to me, the natural - being herself [flaws included] type woman who want to be a team! A partnership for life. One who cares for me [my flaws included], the way I am and accepts the relationship for what it is. I don't want to play games, I don't want the chase - never really did; I hate games like that - very childish in my opinion, and another reason why I don't find young ladies all that interesting - I know they are not all like that, but what are they trying to prove? ...and as you stated; there are more than enough men that do exactly the same - I've had buds that I know where like this; most still single and playing games. SAD

BD Well Said !!

Originally Posted by Seeker_Advice

BD Well Said !!

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My source was edited out because I couldn't post links, where some one asked "Do you guys not like to chase girls anymore?" and it got many responses from men who stated they didn't like the chase. I link to a site which has proof that FAR from all men like the chase, and theres even proof that LanaBear edited it out.