yes I did meet him on a dating website. He was 11 years older than me. On the last phone call he said he will call again soon and will send more pics and asked for more of mine. Then in an e-mail 2 days later, he said he would call the next he is in my town. I doubt he found someone else, and even if he did it's fine by me. A guy who does not make an honest effort to at least keep in touch in the meantime is not worth my attention. I moved on, let him go in my reply e-mail. At least I don't leave loose ends or people guessing about my intentions. Thanks though for your thoughts :-)