Your Worst Trait?

**Master Bruh** · 01-28-2011 02:02 PM

This is indeed Master Bruh's first thread.

Now Bruhs and Lady Bruhs what is your worst trait, according to an ex(s)?

I ask this because often times we think we know ourselves and thats how we enter a new relationship or just how we perceive ourselves when others might see different.

Although I suggest you be on at least decent standing with your ex or you might get a..less then accurate trait.
I asked my ex and she said that I didnt tell about my "hardships" as much as she liked...but of course I can only interpret that as me being amazingly macho

but alas Im sure future lady bruhs might not enjoy that as much as I lol

What do your ex(s) have to say about you?

**asiangrace** · 01-28-2011 07:59 PM

My ex always complained that I didn't open up to him enough! I was just a very guarded person due to my upbringing.

**Little_Miss_Me** · 01-28-2011 08:25 PM

I've been through so many divorces between my parents (every year from the time I was two, until last year =P) and I've got this problem where I can turn my feelings on and off like a lightswitch.

If I get hurt, I'll instantly turn off, making me numb to -everything-, even things that make me happy. And once I get like that, it takes a week or two to get myself out of the slump. Depending how the person who hurt me reacts, could take longer. It's terrible simply because it's something I can't sleep off.

Plus, I never yell, because I won't let myself get upset enough to yell, which some people take as me not caring.

Lol, that sounded way more emo than I expected.

**stressed** · 01-29-2011 09:35 AM

According to the ex: That it was impossible to argue with me, because I always had something reasonable to talk back with, and that frustrated him the most.

What I think is my worst trait: Brutal honesty

**groupieindenial** · 02-01-2011 12:07 PM

I dunno, no one's ever told me. I've had a few exes tell me how cool I was, and that they'd f'd up - but thats a good thing. I think I can say from what I know my weaknesses are, is that I can come accross as "hard". Hard to get to know, cuz I am not like your typical chick, and that I have this aloofness to me. SInce I'm pretty confident - I scare most guys ha ha.

**caterpillar79** · 02-01-2011 01:38 PM

I tend to keep to myself a lot and bottle up resentments until I'm ready to take off and leave.

**OregonGirl** · 02-01-2011 10:28 PM

I'm gonna have to go with Stressed and say that my worst quality is the fact that I'm so blunt.

I never hide anything and I'm sure that can sometimes be viewed as naggy, but I just think it's so much better to get things out in the open lol.

**fiestypunkgirl** · 02-06-2011 08:18 PM

I'm stoic.

**Agony_Aunt** · 02-06-2011 10:30 PM

Silent treatment..

I had always tended to do this a bit backwards. If we had an arguement or disagreement, if I was shouting and giving out, he took that as things not being too bad.

Where as if it was the silent treatment, he knew he was really in trouble then, lol.