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    I had a one night stand with a guy who is very good looking.
    We had been drinking, at his place watching a movie when I farted really loud, it didn't smell and neither of us said anything. We did have sex and I stayed the night, he did take me home in the morning and was a real gentleman. Should I make contact or spare myself the humiliation..

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    A normal way would be to wait for a few days to a week to see if he contacts you. If not, contact him. What I have found out is girls fart, just like guys, but maybe not as badly. He shouldn't take offense with it, if he does, he will have to learn to be OK with it. Did you and he talk about anything?
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    Wait for him to contact you. You had something like an agreement to have a one night stand, so if he wants anything more than that (or more of the same), he'll call you. If he won't call then he's probably not interested or too shy (doubt that part). If you're very interested in him you can give him a call after 4-5 days, but do be careful with that and be prepared for him to say 'no'.

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    Bumping..
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    what is bumping?

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    Bumping, is "bumping up a thread that has had very little response, bringing it back up so member's such as you Seeker, open the thread and offer your thoughts, creating more opinions to help the OP
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
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    Drop him a casual text to feel the situation out!

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    Cw - Thank you for your explanation.

    BlueQ - First of all, there is NO humiliation in being you. IF you are embarrassed by what occurred, that's different. As some of the others have suggested...wait a few days and see if he contacts you. If not, and you feel he's worth it, then contact him. Or, take it as a signal that he's not interested and move on.

    Forget about the 'bodily function' that occurred, it's not that big of a deal.

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