Thread: Ladies, I need help :(

- Finished school
- Got a well paying corporate job
- I have my own car
- Been going to the gym for a year now, got pretty muscular around 190 lbs now.
- I eat healthy, and haven't been sick in years.
- I dress nice
- I don't drink, smoke, or do any kind of drugs.
- I have a good hygiene, and get my teeth cleaned every few months.
- I get a hair cut almost every month, and keep it short/faded and simple.
- I have made a lot friends and started going out a lot.
- I am really nice, get along with everyone easily, and make them laugh.

You're a good catch

23 and achieved a great career, have your own car and focused in life, on what's important financial stability.

I gather you started going to the gym a year ago to bulk up, feeling that you needed to in order to attract a woman? Then your viewing this as a "bad boy image" and feel your too in-secure, soft, sweet and won't find anyone.

Truth is, yes, young girls go for bad boys, they like the un-known, they like the fact they got him no one else, makes them feel beautiful, yet, in reality, they are the ones in-secure.

Be you, never change, you've done your time, work wise, and your on the road of success...Just be you and mingle more and more, be confident and show it....Make yourself a list, of what you want in life, where she fits in what you want in core values, morals, qualities (not looks) and as you mingle and talk, you will see those morals, core values, some same interests, so look her in the eyes, smile and keep talking to her.

CW