boyfriend is too dominating..not letting my socialize even a bit

**ayushi daswani14** · 02-25-2011 01:52 AM

thank you all...well he apologized for the complete matter.. and has himself asked me to reactivate my account...love you all..

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 02-25-2011 03:14 AM

Sweet, then he'll monitor, watch, read, ....

I know you don't want to listen to me, but I've read and answered tonight all your threads.

He has a controlling nature, personality and you will lose out on being whom you wanted to be, taking away your rights, you said you have no friends, he'll let you take them back but it will only ever,be facebook,he will never let you go out with them, ever...And you will fail with your next year of College.

Don't believe me, go with it... then "tell" him you are going to catch up with the girls,as you've missed them, on your own, one night next week, watch how he responds.

CW

**rcoreyus** · 02-25-2011 11:47 AM

I really don't like the look of this. You don't need his permission to have a social life. He is not your father, or your sovereign, the only rights he has over you is for you to be honest with him and to love him - the same rights you have over him.

**Magnetism** · 02-25-2011 11:47 AM

Co-sign. Been there done that......One of the reasons why victims find it hard to leave an abuse is b/c they have nobody to turn too. The toxic person is the only source of support they have.