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    So I've been dating this really great guy for about 2 months right now. Everything is cool and dandy. However, I've been feeling as of late that things are not as they should be in my life. I really like this guy and I'm starting to fall in love with him but I think that he would admit he loves me until about 6 months and I dont want to be the first person who says it. My mom says for him to say it to me so I dont scare him off or anything. So thats one issue. The next is a have a couple of things that bother me whenever I'm around him. My guy is a gamer, he plays World of Warcraft all the time and all he does is talk about it. I like the game too and he got me playing it, but I dont want to be talking about WOW all the time. I could list the other things that bother me too...

    1.He talks about WOW too much. And sometimes I feel like the game is taking up more of his attention then when I'm trying to get his. I try to get his attention by hold his arm or kissing his cheek but hes too involved with the game, I cant even try to turn him on.
    2. I dont know if he likes to make out because everytime I want to kiss him, he kisses me lightly for about 3 times then moves away and kisses my forhead. So how do I make him want to kiss me more...I told him I liked kissing him but still its the same as it was before hardly any kissing.
    3. Sometimes I dont feel turned on during foreplay because I feel like theyres really no passion to it. Its like routine, and its just the same stuff, we dont make out too much in it as well as I want to.
    4. I dont know how to say this but he has to use lube and hes the first guy I've dated that needs to use it. So its just so blah that I have to stop in the middle and go get some lube and a paper towel because he wants something to catch it with all the time and we have to pause and I go get some.
    5. He doesnt well I'm going to be out spoken here cause I dont know how else to say this, but he doesnt finger me the right way, it doesnt feel amazing and I dont cum much or at all from it, and sometimes he pulls his finger out right when I'm going and he stops. And why does he always have to go to the bathroom right after he fingers me. Is there something wrong with me?

    Can anyone please give me some advice on what I should do or advice in general. Please. Thanks!

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    You scratch his itch, kinda, and in return he doesn't scratch your itch very well. Unless he is willing on working on things a lot more and get's over his fussiness about kissing, etc., you should move on. Guys usually don't change very much, so I would think he would revert to form even after if he changed for a while. I don't think you two are compatible.
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    Check out this thread

    http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...ing-apart.html

    It doesn't sound like he is really into you at all. You are just someone to sit next to and game and have occasional sex with? He is not willing to interact, to talk and share activities or to give you pleasure in equal measure to what you try to give him - move on.
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    It's time for you to go....

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    You know, isn't it fantastic to have someone who you gel with, can sit and talk, laugh, kiss, hold hands, (not every guy says I love you), wants to find out what you like, where your spots are, you his?

    Is that him?

    NO...

    So, doesn't matter what all his traits are, as the other's have said, he's not compatible with you....

    He is "living" that's it... His whole world revolves around WOW...He would be content to live that life and you are a fixture that he has to dust sometimes.

    He is also more than likely OCD...everything has to be cleaned, there are then.... so there is nothing at all wrong with you...

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