Please help me im lost confused and hurt!!!

**chevy** · 03-30-2011 03:03 PM

thx everyone for your help nd about the sex thing well it isnt important to me really i wouldd rather jus lay with a guy and watch a movie than have sex but sex really hasnt impressed me all that much since my last bf forced him on me but any way thx for ur help i greatly appreciate it =)

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 03-30-2011 03:14 PM

Chevy,

I know you don't want to hear....

It's beautiful to be loved, to be in a relationship and after all the last boyfriend was worse right? He just took from you.

And so the wheels keep turning, now you have one that ignores you and puts you down, does what he wants, and so the wheels keep turning.

It's time you realised you are WORTH SOMETHING.....and DESERVE.

If you had one boyfriend?
And, you had another?

Won't you have another?

See, life is about lessons learnt and what we will accept and not accept... You wouldn't accept another boyfriend forcing himself on you would you? And, you shouldn't accept this either then should you ?

You are a beautiful woman .....budding.....whom can find a nice guy that loves you....we don't have time to waste it just pulls us down so the next time we "settle" as well, because we are searching only to be wanted, needed, loved and then we fear being on our own, can't find someone better.

YES YOU CAN.

**chevy** · 03-31-2011 02:29 PM

thx every1 but to b honest i would give up sex if he would b like he used to. he is gettn alot btr about my dad all 3 of us sat down nd i told them how i felt about things nd now they treat me alot btr and include me in everything but me nd my bf still dont do much 2ghtr. but the one gud thing about him he is kindof old fashioned nd doesnt want to have sex all the time but only like once or twice a month nd i no he is very faithful he is perfect but it still makes me feel bad when we rlly dont hang out.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 04-01-2011 07:55 AM

Chevy, since when does being old fashioned mean only having sex once or twice a month?

He's perfect yet he doesn't do anything with you? He's perfect yet you're seemingly just a tag-a-long while he hangs out with your dad?

I think you're not being honest with yourself. There seems to be a serious lack of self esteem and self worth here where you're concerned. Obviously, I can't change that, but I can tell you that your womans instinct is telling you this isn't right and isn't what you deserve.