im trying and trying but nothing is working :(

**bigbrownie** · 03-31-2011 05:49 PM

ok so i've taken the advise people have given me (see my last thread called still confused) and kinda tried using it. the problem is we don't really talk in the halls so i don't know how to build up a conversation to tell him how I feel, i got a forward on my phone that was called the boyfriend/girlfriend guide....i know how corny forwards are but im getting desperate and im trying everything. well anyways it said to brush his hand and see if he takes it i tried and it didn't work, it said say your cold and see if he gives you his sweatshirt i tried that but it didn't work, there was lots of other stuff on that forward but none of it worked... like i said im getting desperate and i really need advise right now so could somebody please help... remember im only 13 things aren't that easy to do...also people were wondering how old he was, hes 13 too. anyways PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

**chevy** · 03-31-2011 08:21 PM

i have been in the same thing once when i was younger. what i did was just played it cool around him and everytime he he was passing me i would laugh and flip my hair lightly and give him a side ways stare that wasnt mean but kindof sexy. it worked like a charm so maybe thats what you should do. but you do have to realize that you are only 13 and that it may be 2 soon for a relationship. but u have to look like your not all that interested yet flirty. soon he will start noticing and start talking to you and all you have to do is smile and say nice things and he may start liking you and eventually yall might even start dating but remember that you cant rush getting into a relationship because if you try 2 rush into one he may be turned off because you came on to soon.

**Mes T** · 03-31-2011 09:22 PM

Bigbrownie, I just briefly read your earlier posts...

You gotta remember that sometimes girls "mature" faster than boys. You're 13 and have a crush and want love and to hold hands with a boy and say you have a proper boyfriend...

But I don't think many 13 year old boys can give you what you're looking for. I bet he's more interested in hanging out with his guy friends or playing sports or video games or WHATEVER...

Why not just be friends with him and maybe look for someone else to date, OR forget about dating altogether for a while. I didn't date when I was a teenager, but I had lots of really strong crushes on people... And it was REALLY FUN.

I stalked a really good-looking boy at school once. I'm sure he uh.. never saw me.. or heard me giggle really loudly whenever he walked by.. Ahem...

Anywayyyy...

Just have fun with your friends and don't worry too much about this boy for the moment, he probably doesn't want a "real" girlfriend anyway.