I want him back..(L)

**kayleigh4** · 04-11-2011 11:15 PM

I was dating this guy back in November we lasted from November 20th till around January 5th.. I do care for him and I want him back in my life, but I'm not so sure how to go about that, he's dated other people since then and I just don't know if he thinks I'm good enough. We live in different cities but we could see eachother a few times a week. I recently had a sleepover with his bestfriend and drank a bit and all my feelings for him slipped out. I cried. Now I'm scared he may tell him and he might think I'm obsessive.. I'm supposed to be going over to his place Easter weekend to party ..I want him to know how I feel, but I don't want it to come out the wrong way. I really miss him and I'd do anything to get him back. any advice on how to let him know without creeping him out, or any way to give little hints or something to take away the akwardness?

**WildChild** · 04-11-2011 11:49 PM

This sounds more desperate than loving.
The question isn't if he thinks you are good enough. Do You think You are "good enough"? Low self esteem will drive you feelings that you will "do anything" to get someone back.

Its only been a little over 2 months and you were together for what? 6 weeks?
How old are you?
Who ended it and why?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-12-2011 12:49 AM

kayleigh, I just read your poem on your homepage, very poetic

I'm 14 years old, and i've been dating this guy for about a month now, just 2 days before we started dating his ex girlfriend was kicked out of their house, ( his mom didn't like her living there anymore ) and he was always saying how much he ' hated ' her and stuff then today i heard they were letting her back in the house n stuff and i seen a post on facebook saying ' hangin with chris for the night, having fun i love you christopher ' ... from his ex. I've heard from a really close friend ( chris' friend too ) that shes got an ' obsesssion' with him.. we are sexually active and that scares me too what if something happens between them and i don't findout about it and she ends up having something? i wanna be able to trust him and i feel so terrible that i can't, but knowing about their history and knowing that his ex girlfriend is living with him again its tough.. i feel bad because thats all i can think about now. Should i talk to him about it? or should i just try and forget about it? .. Please Help.

Sweet, this is from another Thread of yours back in December.

It sounds to me that she was still living with him when you "dated" this boy and also were intimate with him and she moved back in.

It's now April and I am betting that she still lives with him and he's seeing another girl as well.

You deserve better, use your poetry and keep writing, you are good at it, and believe in it, BUT believe that love also means he doesn't have a girlfriend as well, as he did at the beginning of that relationship back in November, YOU ARE worth it.... hold out .... and look for someone else and wait a bit before giving anything. Like a long bit, really long

CW