Ladies, did i do something wrong? plz read soo confused!

**Ali20** · 04-21-2011 10:42 PM

So i recently reconnected with an old acquaintance of mines on an social networking/dating website. We exchanged 3/4 emails. he did not reply to my last email and then both of our free subscription to the website expired! lol Below was the last email he sent me:
HIM: "Why hello Ali! my brother lives in ***city and went to uni there too, what are you doing your undergrad in? i am working in ***city but do a lot of travel through out Latin America as most of my clients are down there. it's a pretty cushy gig so I'm not complaining, gets me out of the snow and on the beach that's for sure...what are your plans when you return back to the city? job or summer off?"
ME: "well, *** city is a nice quite town, but its a bit of an acquired taste, when i first moved here i didn't like it too much, but i slowly warmed up to it. I'm doing my undergrad in blah blah and have to finish a 12 month work term as part of the prog requirement, and i hope to find something in blah blah so i can stay in the city for the tome being..you know I'm glad to hear that you enjoy what you do, especially since you are in banking, most people in IB that i know of often complain about the crazy stress an the notorious work hours. all the traveling must keep you super busy, do you get home sick? have you ventured outside of Latin America?"
NO RESPONSE- i saw him log into the account so he clearly read the message! but he didn't respond and the week after that the subscription expired. its been a month since i last wrote to him, I'm back on the website on another free trail and I'm thinking of dropping him a line and just asking how he's been? should i do it? would it be too much? would i come off as too interested/strong? or should i just let it go?

**WildChild** · 04-21-2011 10:51 PM

I would let it go for now. Are you on FB or any other networking sites? If so, he can find you if he wishes to.

**spurzzz** · 04-22-2011 03:46 AM

The thing is we cannot assume things, just because he logged on doesn't mean he read and got your message. How do you know he wasn't busy with all his travelling and has got caught up in other issues in his life.

He may have even met someone else.

It has been 1 month so anything could have happened, don't stress over it and relay all your thoughts onto him. As WildChild above said, if you are on Facebook then add him and strike up a conversation that way, if not then message him once if your that keen on the website and leave it at that.

If he doesn't reply, then you have tried what you could. Move on....