Thanks caterpillar79. I don't think you're old fashioned at all, and I don't call him. I'm not playing games but I am quite stubborn that way and really always need to know they are interested in me. For that reason I won't chase them. I feel though for the first time in a very long time that he and I would be well suited. So naturally I am anxious.

I am taking a girlfriend with me to the wedding. Because my friend getting married is an ex, I want to be there and just have fun, so it's easier with a girlfriend.