my boyfriends exs are HOT!

**wishy0uwerehere** · 06-24-2011 04:57 PM

thanks for the kind words everyone! youre all so helpful! i know everything you say is true. i love my boyfriend so much, and since this is my first legitimate relationship and its going so well and we dont have any ACTUAL problems, i make these things up in my crazy head. but i am getting better...your responses were really the push i needed to get past all this BS. my insecurities are all about me...im the type of person who hates things that i cant change, and i cant change the fact that he was with pretty women before me. but thats life, and i just have to find a way to deal with that. and i will. thank you so much everyone...it means a lot that you all wanted to help

**Mighty Grasshopper** · 06-25-2011 01:02 PM

i have to say that you're very young and that you need to work on yourself right now.

**melsand** · 07-13-2011 05:59 PM

wishy0uwerehere-
I feel EXACTLY THE SAME. My boyfriend has poor self esteem on some days and a huge ego on others. However, I always have extremely bad self esteem. I look in the mirror and think that I am dirt, honestly. And when I see the girls he has had a thing with, they're all skinny little blonds. I am a 170 pound brunette that has only C cups and a giant butt. I want breast implants because I feel like I am not good enough. I recently found out that for a month, he was looking at porn and my self esteem shot even further down. We have been dating for almost 9 months now and it just still feels like I am not good enough or "sexy" enough. He tells me he loves me and only wants to see my body, as did your boyfriend. But, some days I just don't feel that way. I'm here for you hun (:

**melsand** · 07-13-2011 06:24 PM

I guess, thanks for the wise words(:

**Texinator** · 07-13-2011 07:27 PM

Mel, some women have low self esteem because they think they have "only" A or B cups. Tell them about being inadequate with your "only" C cups.

Thing is, as prone men are to thinking with their "small brain," not all of us are only interested in large breasts, thin waists, and small behinds. For many of us, personality trumps all. So you may want to listen to your boyfriend when he says he likes you for you, regardless of what his exes look like.