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    Once a friend came crying to me because she gave it all to a boyfriend. She date with that guy only for 3 moths and there is so much that happened between them not knowing she was being used. Dating should have boundaries, one should not be too pushy physically. A girl should have a limitations on everything. dating should be a stage to make friends and not to be a stage of seduction. Do you agree with this?

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    I do agree but then it's up to the girl to be wise and to use her intuition, not the will and desire to find love, to be choosy and to look closely.

    And, un-fortunately a guy with ill intentions will play on the girl, establish her vunerability and work on that to get what he wants.

    What is important is that the girl learn from that, not hate herself for it, after all she waited three months, in the dating world that's a long time....she is a good person who was used. She needs to feel proud of the fact she waited and feel sorry for the next girl he comes across...

    She in my opinion, will now not settle and choose who she dates with more caution.
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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