Past issues

**simply.arie** · 07-15-2011 05:06 PM

I was with my ex for exactly a year. And throughout that year we had MANY issues come up. He had a huge problem with trust and always thought I was going to cheat on him even though I never have cheated on a guy! There was many other issues throughout our year and I always felt like I had to try way to hard to make him feel ok with himself and with our relationship.
After me and my ex broke up I met this amazing guy at my work. He just natural makes me happy and we have an amazing connection that I don't think I had with my ex. (sad but true) But what my question is, is sometimes I think that this relationship with this new guy is to good to be true and I always have a thought that something bad is going to happen just because of my ex and our relationship. I just wanted to know if anyone has been in this situation? And if so, how do you let go so easy and just enjoy your time with an amazing person!?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-15-2011 05:32 PM

Past is Past
Present is Present
Future is Future

You are looking at it all the wrong way.. OMG this is too good to be true, something is going to go wrong, why is this the opposite to what I had?

Because you were with someone you were not compatible with on any level and now you are

Chill and enjoy and remember, to give as well as receive and to always take time out to laugh and love and you will go into your future

**simply.arie** · 07-16-2011 05:15 PM

thanx!

so is it wrong that I was with the first guy for a year and now I'm starting to date this guy and I've only been broken up for about 2-3 weeks..? It feels right to me but I was wondering how to handle the comments about "moving on fast"

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-16-2011 05:32 PM

I would answer like this.

Yes, I was with ..for a year but I spent the whole year walking on egg shells and feeling that it was not a relationship, I should have gotten out earlier, so I'm not moving fast rather in the right direction